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  • souldrumdj

    I would like to get some feedback on Chinese mens' view of Love, relationship ro

    I would like to get some feedback on Chinese mens' view of Love, relationship role in marriage. I understand this might sound like I'm generalizing... I am just trying to gain a general feel for the consensus on these topics these days from Chinese women and men and anyone who has had experience with Chinese in these areas. Thanks! (oh, it is for my own knowledge--I'm married to a Chinese man who's in China but I'll get into that later)! I'm trying to gage my expectations realistically against what I feel is right :)

    I am really looking for Chinese mens' views from China -- (rather than Americanized views)...

    Do men in China feel it's desirable to be friends (like a best friend) with the wife? 

    Or do they feel this should be rather separate?

    Do Chinese men tend to like to be enmeshed in a marriage relationship? (i.e. share the events of the day with the wife or share problems with each other or share money, dreams, goals, etc.)? 

    How about asking for help? Do Chinese husbands enjoy asking their wives for help or do they avoid this like the plague?

    Can you elaborate?

    How Do Chinese men typically feel in marriage about keeping their marriage instilled with romanticism, love, passion, private time together, sex, and fun ?

    Do Chinese men typically feel that marriage is not the place for "love and romanticism" but just an institution of convenience or for survival (have children and to acquire property, have a foundation, etc.)? 

    Might Chinese men prefer to find love and romance outside of a marriage?

    Just really curious about these things and again...I understand this is generalization and that generalization is dangerous...but I want to get a general feeling or consensus...because there are "cultural norms" in every society. I want to hear what Chinese men and women are saying about this nowadays...
    2 months agoin Culture-Beijing
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  • Luke Dawley

    I have a Chinese male friend who is a very considerate person to his wife.

    2 months ago
  • Varsha Shaktawat

    I have a Chinese boyfriend, I think Chinese men are more careful, more patient and responsible.

    2 months ago
  • Sushko

    Chinese men feel that love represents responsibility and control

    2 months ago

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